October 12, 2016
October 12, 2016
Hundreds of girls and young women in the district of Baitadi have received training to address people in small villages about child marriage and other social issues, in a nation where, according to a 2011 census, more than 1.3 million people were wed between ages 10 and 14. The young females prevent such marriages by discussing legal penalties, which some observers say are too lenient, against parents who marry off children before age 20, health problems common to younger mothers and the cycle of illiteracy that often ensues.
HATAIRAJ, NEPAL — Hemanti Koli’s house in Hatairaj, a village in Nepal’s far west Baitadi district, is remote, with no road access.
Global Press Journal reporter Kalpana Khanal traveled to Nepal’s Baitadi district, a remote area that hugs Nepal’s western border with India, to discover what life is like for people there. She found lush hillsides and picturesque communities, but also extreme poverty. (Read Inside the Story to learn more about Kalpana’s reporting journey.)
Child marriage, starting at age 10, is commonly practiced, with 23 percent of women having married before the age of 15. Another 61 percent of women married between the ages of 15 and 19. Bonded labor was common in the district until the government banned it in 2008. When that ban went into effect, families in bonded labor who lived on their landlord’s properties were forced to move, which placed them at risk of other forms of forced labor. About 40 percent of men and about 75 percent of women in the district are illiterate.
This story is one of three GPJ reported from Baitadi district. Read our story on the area’s lack of schools here. The third story, on migrant workers, is forthcoming.
Families here eke out a living as laborers in other villages or as migrant workers in other districts and countries. The rocky mountain terrain isn’t suitable for farming, and even if they could grow crops, the two-hour trek to the nearest roadway would make it impossible to get goods to market regularly, villagers say.
Hemanti, 14, says her family ─ she’s the oldest of six girls ─ sometimes goes hungry. Her father’s income as a worker in a nearby quarry isn’t enough, and he spends much of what he earns on alcohol, anyway, she says.
So she was thrilled when her parents told her in November that she would go to live with another family. Hemanti remembers her father’s words:
“You are now grown up,” she recalls him saying. “You have to go to live in another home. There you will get delicious food to eat and nice clothes to wear.”
But the day before the new family was scheduled to come visit, two teenage girls came to her home. Hemanti says she listened in and heard them arguing with her parents about her future. It was only then, Hemanti says, that she realized her parents had arranged for her to be married, and that the new family would be her in-laws.
Kalpana Khanal, GPJ Nepal
The two visitors “warned my parents that they would go to jail if they marry off a child and spoil her life as they had done with their own lives,” Hemanti says.
The two teenagers, Manmati Tailor and Urmila Chanda, argued and talked for many hours. Hemanti says that conversation saved her.
“If the sisters had not come at that time, my parents would have sent me to the other home, luring me with a promise of delicious food,” she says, using the honorific term “sisters” for Tailor and Chanda. “Those sisters saved me.”
Six months earlier, in May 2015, Tailor and Chanda, both 19, had attended a five-day training program organized by the Women’s Development Office and the District Development Committee of Baitadi, together with UNFPA Nepal. The program was part of a Women’s Development Office effort to train groups of girls in every one of Baitadi district’s villages in education, health and other social issues. The topic of child marriage was also covered, including the fact that the legal marrying age in Nepal is 20.
Around 760 girl leaders from 11 villages in Baitadi district have been trained since the program began, says Ganesh Shahi, the Baitadi district coordinator of UNFPA Nepal.
It came as a surprise to Tailor that early marriage was wrong. She says her family tried to marry her off when she was 16, but she refused, despite not knowing the impact child marriage can have on families and society.
Tailor says it’s common in her village for girls as young as 9 to be married.
“I did not have any idea at that time it was wrong,” she says. “We were all compelled to become a mere spectator, thinking that the rules made by society should be blindly followed.”
This is a problem throughout South Asia. There, almost half of all girls marry before they reach the age of 18, according to a 2015 report by UNICEF. In Nepal, 41 percent of girls marry before that age, ranking it below India and Bangladesh.
Some of those girls were married when they were very young. More than 1.3 million Nepalese were wed between the ages of 10 and 14, and more than 80 percent of those were girls, according to the 2011 census. More than 115,000 girls were married before they were 10, according to that same census.
If current global trends continue, around 142 million girls will be married by their 18th birthday in 2020, according to the UNFPA.
Kalpana Khanal, GPJ Nepal
Penalties for child marriage are too lenient in Nepal, says Sujan Panta, a lawyer who works to raise awareness on the issue.
The law allows for a fine of up to 10,000 rupees ($93.32) or a prison sentence of up to three years for parents who arrange marriages for their children.
“We throw a person selling 25 grams of drugs behind bars for 10 years, but only three years for those who spoil a child’s entire life by marrying her off,” he says. “The law is very weak if we view it from that perspective.”
Child marriage is a barrier to Nepal’s development, says Narayan Prasad Kafle, spokesman of the Ministry of Women, Children and Social Welfare.
When children marry at a young age, both partners stop going to school, he says. The girl stays at home to do housework, while the boy gets a job in order to support his wife and extended family.
“If the parents do not obtain proper knowledge, then the next generation will also become illiterate,” he says.
Young mothers are more likely to have health problems, which puts a financial burden on the family and government, he says. Poor health prevents girls who wish to work from joining the labor market.
The ministry has established an Office of Women and Children in each of Nepal’s 75 districts to ensure that child marriage, as well as other issues relating to women and children’s rights, are addressed, he says. The ministry has also prepared a National Strategy 2016 to end child marriage by 2030.
But much of the hard work is being done in small villages, by young women like Tailor and Chanda. They returned to their village after their training, determined to reverse Nepal’s child marriage trend.
“It was difficult to convince villagers at the beginning,” Tailor says. “Nobody was interested to listen to us.”
But they persevered and began holding meetings of what they call the Girls’ Circle. At first, just four or five girls and young women attended. By August 2016, the group had 150 members, ranging in age from 8 to 19.
Kalpana Khanal, GPJ Nepal
Now, when Chanda and Tailor hear that a child marriage is being planned, they visit the family.
“Either by convincing people or arguing with them, we are stopping child marriages in the village,” Chanda says.
If the parents don’t agree to stop the marriage, Chanda and Tailor inform the Women’s Development Office of Baitadi district or the local police.
The Girls’ Circle has stopped five child marriages since it began its work in June 2015. Hemanti Koli’s marriage was one of them.
Hemanti is now an active member of a local Girls’ Circle, and she reminds her parents that she’ll only consider marriage once she’s 20.
For Tailor and Chanda, the work doesn’t always go smoothly, even in their own families.
“Sometimes our parents and families scold us, asking, ‘Why are you trying to be smart? Nothing happened to us when we married when we were 9 years old,’” Chanda says.
The Girls’ Circle formed too late to help Karishma Nepali, who married in 2013, when she was 15.
Now 18, Nepali lives with her in-laws. Her husband is a migrant worker in Malaysia, and she has a son who isn’t yet 2 years old. She does all the housework for her husband’s family, she says.
“If I had known that it will be so difficult, I would have not married at an early age,” Nepali says. “I came to know only after the marriage that one should not marry at an early age.”
But Tailor says things are slowly changing.
Tailor is in her last year of school, and she plans to pursue a bachelor of arts degree in sociology. She’ll hand over the Girls’ Circle to a young leader, she says, and set up a youth network, involving both men and women, to fight child marriage.
“It would be easier to stop child marriage if trainings on child marriage are provided to girls as well as boys and guardians,” she says.
Sagar Ghimire translated this article from Nepali.